Getting these three things right can make a huge difference and can spell catastrophe if your not careful. Your gal will treasure these things and will want to have them saved and cherished for the rest of her life.

Think about your personal experience where you came through in sports, debate, business maybe. You won and you loved to tell about it. Your passion, ego, self-esteem is positively fed by those moments. That is what it is like for her in the area of love, family, and emotion. You are the catalyst of making it ordinary or extraordinary. I don’t know about you but I want the women I’m with to be extraordinary.

First lets talk about the Proposal. Whether you want to be creative, simple, loving, special, intimate or public, you need to realize she will repeat the story 1,000 times between girlfriends, family, co-workers, strangers, for years and years to come. Give her a story that she can be proud and joyful to share.

Secondly the ring is what she will adorn with pride and will often be the center of attention as a gesture of your love. Women have a preference on shape of diamond whether marquis, or round do your homework to find out. Then invest as much as you can afford. The good news today is that mens rings of titanium has significantly grown in choices, styles, and sizes. Today’s modern man can choose mens wedding bands of titanium that include diamonds, inlays and color.

We guys sometimes struggle with The Vow. Putting our feelings and emotions to spoken words are not natural as they seem to be for women. Be sincere, thoughtful and encouraging. She will hang on each word, trust me. Keep her and the both of you together the focus as if know one else exists. You’ll get it right if its from the heart.

Legacy is not mentioned as much as it used to be. You have the opportunity too make your own movie when it comes to the big 3. The women in your life will appreciate how you played it out as you control most of it. Is it going to win an Oscar or go directly to dvd. Be thoughtful with your commitment to her, your family and God as you embark on the most rewarding time in your life.

Do not slouch or take the Big 3 lightly. The journey is a special one and you have the power to make it extraordinary for her and your marriage.

To sum it up, it all matters from proposal to the ring to the vows and most importantly living an excellent life in marriage. Setting up your foundation of love and commitment, like building a house, can be solid, made of quality and well designed. Here’s to people in love, the bride and the groom, many years of happiness and joy.