Instinctively, when a guy goes through the experience of having his girlfriend break with him, he reveals himself begging and pleading for her to take him back. Take it from me – I have been in those extremely shoes! And each time I reminisce about that point in my life, I embarrassingly shake my head at the undeniable fact that I behaved so pitifully!

However , the reality at the time was that I just couldn’t accept being dropped. So, I called her numerous times a day to apologize and beg her to take me back. At first, she would answer my calls, but after a while she realized I wasn’t going away, so she just stopped responding. At that point, i did what any desperate ex-boyfriend would do : I started sending a mess of text messages. Of course, those went unanswered as well .

However , what I failed to realize is that the apologies, pleas and gifts were signs of my emotional disturbance as a consequence of losing her, which agree with it or not is exactly why your ex-girlfriend will not take you back either! That’s's right, doing the exact opposite of that’s basically the only way to get your ex to take you back.

A self-help guide I found online pointed out the psychological principle “You need What you can’t Have” in very clear terms. That principle can be further expanded to say “You do not want What you may have Easily”. And that is exactly the case with your ex-girlfriend. Because you are showing overt eagerness to return to her, it’s straightforward for her to turn a blind eye – from a psychological point of view.

Give it a try ; behave as if you’re fine with the breakup and see how swiftly she is going to realize how much she misses you and come running back to you. Make her think she couldn’t get you back even if she tried and see the positive results!