These are three areas that you must get right as you make a lifelong commitment to your loved one. She treasures these moments in her personal archive under glass and high security. It also can set the tone for a marriage and soul mate relationship.

Are you happiest when you just accomplished something and are given credit for a job well done? You finished a project or created something great? Your identity, your self-esteem, maybe your validated and encouraged in the best ways possible. Your woman, most women, are family centered and have a strong love and emotion basis. Knowing this will help you raise the bar when it comes to these 3 areas of romance.

First lets talk about the Proposal. Whether you want to be creative, simple, loving, special, intimate or public, you need to realize she will repeat the story 1,000 times between girlfriends, family, co-workers, strangers, for years and years to come. Give her a story that she can be proud and joyful to share.

Secondly the ring is what she will adorn with pride and will often be the center of attention as a gesture of your love. Women have a preference on shape of diamond whether marquis, or round do your homework to find out. Then invest as much as you can afford. The good news today is that mens rings of titanium has significantly grown in choices, styles, and sizes. Today’s modern man can choose mens wedding bands of titanium that include diamonds, inlays and color.

Making your statement of love, your Vow must be sincerely from your heart. Let her know how you feel about her in your life. Yesterday, today and forever. The Vow is so important to share your feelings that you want to be well prepared with much thought given to your word choice.

Legacy is not mentioned as much as it used to be. You have the opportunity too make your own movie when it comes to the big 3. The women in your life will appreciate how you played it out as you control most of it. Is it going to win an Oscar or go directly to dvd. Be thoughtful with your commitment to her, your family and God as you embark on the most rewarding time in your life.

Do not slouch or take the Big 3 lightly. The journey is a special one and you have the power to make it extraordinary for her and your marriage.

In summary, the proposal, ring, and vows are all keenly important to the overall journey to the alter. Like a well designed home, your marriage will start on a solid foundation of love with putting generous effort into the Big 3 areas. Love, live and be happy as you and your bride begin your life together.