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Wedding Planning: Proper Wedding Invitation Etiquette

by Rick Anderson

Have you begun the wonder process of wedding planning, however have ran into some issues with sending out invitations as you are unsure as to the proper etiquette of sending a wedding invitation? The following are some essential tips for this extremely important facet of a wedding, this way you will know whats acceptable and what you should steer clear of doing.

Tips for acceptable wedding invitation etiquette:

If the wedding ceremony will be held in a different place from the wedding reception, the wedding invitation should include another paper for the reception in case the place of reception will be held in a place where the securities are strict with guests. The details should also be correct and precise, especially the address, date of the wedding, and the exact time.

During the wedding planning process of writing out your wedding invitations you should save very casual names to friends and family that are very close to you. While you will be using their formal names on the outer envelope, using terms of endearment such as Grandpa and Grandma and Aunt Mary while filling out the inner envelope will show you how much they mean to you even while you are in the midst of planning a very formal event in your life.

Wedding invitations are normally handed out personally, but if you have to invite some friends from other place far from where you are, you may mail your invitations. But you should also give proper considerations to your finances or financial budget for the wedding. You may think of saving on expenses by sending invitations ahead of time. Two months may be enough time if you want to send invitations to some of your friends and relatives who are far away. Regular mode of postal delivery usually costs less than special delivery.

The invitation should also state the attire for the wedding event. If your wedding theme is formal, emphasize the need to wear formal attire. If the theme is outdoor style, let them know what you want them to wear for your wedding day.

Things you should steer clear of when sending out wedding invitations:

If your guests would come with their children, the invitations should include the names of them or the whole family, not just simply address it to the parents. Children who are above eighteen years of age should also have their own invitation separate from the invitation for the family.

Nicknames should not be written on the envelope of the wedding invitations. The proper way of putting the name is just the first and last name. Avoid putting the middle names or the middle initials because some would prefer not to see their middle names on any invitation.

Titles and names of the guests should not be abbreviated except for Mr., Mrs. and Dr. It would be informal to do abbreviations for their names and titles.

Even the dates, time of the ceremony, and the address of the wedding venue should also be written completely and clearly so the guests would be properly guided.

Avoid changing the word And with an & if you need to put it in your invitation.

No matter if you are planning a cheap wedding or an expensive one, wedding invitation etiquette should be treated with the greatest of importance. You are inviting people to share with you one of the most important days of your life so you want to be sure that your wedding invitations properly reflect that.

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Wedding Invitations – what is it?

by Dennis Durrel

When you are planning your wedding, it is an exciting time. You have been waiting for this day since you were little girl, and you want it to be perfect. You will truly send your guests a message of what they can expect from your wedding with your wedding invitations design.

Wedding invitations are mailed to the visitors of your party to bid them to join you as you get married . This bid should have essential information on it like who is present the event , who is getting wedded, the date of the ceremony , and where it is being held . If you want to include more info on there, you can do so, but as long as you have the basics, your guests will be pleasant.

Wedding invitations are available in so many different design styles. This is where you are truly able to customize your invitation. You can choose from more traditional wedding invitations to more modern ones. Really the choice is completely personal depending on your sense of style

Wedding invitations in general include a reaction card for your guests to give back to you to indicate whether they will be capable to attend , and how many guests are coming in their party . You can take to have additional inclusions in your wedding invitations like a menu card or a direction card if you want to.

Once you have that decided you will want to take your completed wedding invitations, envelopes and all, to the post office to get them measured and weighed. You will need to ensure that you have the accurate postage to get your wedding invitations delivered to their recipients with no problems!

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Wedding Etiquette Do’s and Don’ts

by Linda Beckett

There is proper etiquette to follow for wedding preparations as well as for the wedding guests and party. You can figure out the correct etiquette if you attend several weddings. However a lot of of us don’t attend many weddings so you need to find some etiquette rules if you are unsure. If you know the correct etiquette then you will enjoy your wedding much more. and have a good time as a guest.

There are some wedding invitation etiquette rules you should follow. If you do not want any children at your wedding then you need to spell it out for them. You can have your friends and relatives pass the word or you can make it clear.

There are also certain phrases you can have that politely omit inviting children, such as; “four seats have been reserved for you”, “adult reception” or “we hope the three of you can join us”. It’s also important to include an RSVP card that has return postage. If you are inviting adult’s older children, then any one over 18 should receive their own invitation. You should also send invitations to your relatives or those that may not need one, as they may keep it as a memento of the occasion.

Gift information should not be found in your invitation. Your friends and relatives can let everyone know if you have a registry set up at any stores. You can also include this information in your bridal shower invitations. It is not polite to have “cash gifts only” in your wedding invitation. There are specific cases when money gifts are a good option, but in no means should it be mandatory.

It isn’t important how many times the bride has been married, she can always wear white. However it is inappropriate for the bride to wear a veil or a train or to carry orange blossoms. Your parents are only obliged to pay for your first marriage, not any future marriages. Today it is more common|popular| for the couple to pay for their own wedding.

You should plan the seating accordingly so that no fights break out. Battling relatives should be seated far apart as they can. You should also try to seat everyone by age or relationship. This will minimize an uncomfortable conversation silences. You want everyone to have a nice time and whom he or she sit with will be important.

There are no set rules to follow when planning the head table. You can include or disclude anyone that you want. Some people like the parents at the table and others just the wedding party. You should have tables assigned but not seats, the only reserved seats should be for the groom and brides parents.

Guests also have some etiquette rules to follow. RSVP need to be returned, you should never just show up to a wedding without RSVPing. You should only send a gift if you are attending the wedding. Those latecomers to the ceremony should wait to be seated once the bride has walked down the aisle.

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Tips on Rehearsal Dinner Invitations

by Doug Schlette

One of the most important elements of a wedding is the invitation. Long after the wedding ends people hold onto the invitations. The invitation also helps set the stage for the overall wedding experience.

Because the rehearsal dinner is such a key part of the wedding, the rehearsal dinner invitations also hold a special meaning. Keep in mind too that years later, this invitation will be something the bride will proudly show her children and even their potential spouses.

The recipient list is very important in the scheme of things. Thankfully it’s not complex. People who have a place in the wedding receive an invite to the rehearsal dinner. This will be the bridal party, the bride’s parents and groom’s parents, and other close people the couple to be would like to invite. The person who officiates the wedding should also be invited. This is a smaller list than the wedding invitation list as it only covers people who actually have a role.

There are a lot of ways to print and design these. Many people opt to have the people who create the wedding invitation create these as well. It’s probably the best way. The fewer service providers with a hand in the wedding the better. Also important is a consistent design. The same shop might have great ideas on a pattern to work off the main invitations.

Remember too that bulk means cheaper. The vendor may offer a discount if all the work is given to them. This dinner, though, is usually planned and executed by the groom’s parents. Letting them oversee a new design might make them happier. A different design may also compliment the original wedding invitations.

A big part of the wedding is the rehearsal dinner. It’s almost like a free throw in basketball. It seems pretty mundane, but if handled correctly the rehearsal dinner invitations add an important element to the wedding, while if handled poorly the entire wedding could be ruined.

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Weight Loss Programs Help You Get Organized

by Belinda Gable

Have you ever noticed how those who are disorganized tend to spend most of their time rushing about? The sad thing is that because of their disorganized lifestyle, they also tend to rush their meals and of course, those who eat to fast tend to eat more than they need to which results in them becoming overweight.

Mess causes distress and that in turn causes people to eat too much. Are you beginning to see the picture of how having a well organized life will help you to maintain a more balanced and healthy body?

It’s an undeniable fact that stress is a common cause of weight problems as the vast majority of people tend to eat whenever they become stressed.

Being organized will also ensure that you have the right food in your house and you don’t have to resort to low quality foods that you keep as a backup for those times when you run out of the nutritious food that you should be eating.

Yet another advantage is that people who are well organized, also tend to eat regular meals at regular intervals. This is fundamental in keeping one’s blood sugar level in check as it’s a well known fact that eating irregularly, is a major cause of low blood sugar. A multitude of research has shown that when blood sugar levels drop below what they should be, overeating becomes the norm.

The last thing you need is to arrive at mealtime only to find you don’t have any healthy foods in store, thus causing you to slap something together which has very little, if any, nutrition so planning ahead is essential.

Shopping lists are quite literally invaluable to everyone but especially to those who are on a weight loss program. Planning ahead as to what foods you need will ensure that you always have enough of everything in order to prepare a healthy meal.

Organization is one of the keys to success in following any weight loss program. It also helps to reduce the amount of time that you have to think about food and think about losing weight and when that doesn’t become such a big focus in your life you are more likely to succeed.

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Picking Out An Engagement Ring

by Rudiger Petulanze

Engagement rings can be incredibly beautiful works of art, as well as an amazingly important part of your life. However, there are plenty of rings to choose from, and you’ll probably run into a lot of confusing terms. That can make it hard to know what to pick without the right information.

There are three major parts to any engagement ring – the design, the stone, and the metal. The stone is generally a diamond, and the metal is usually gold, but other options are available.

Picking The Stone One thing to be aware of is the system for grading diamonds. The four components are Cut, Carat, Color and Clarity.

You’ll need to pay close attention to diamond quality when you make your purchase, but the highest quality isn’t necessarily the best. Lower quality diamonds can look the same as the best ones, but they save you a lot when you use them.

Choosing Metals Most engagement rings have bands and settings in either gold or platinum. You can get gold in levels of quality from ten to twenty-four karats, and in many colors, ranging from yellow to white to rose.

Eighteen karat gold is probably the most popular engagement ring choice, but ten and fourteen karats are chosen by some because they’re stronger. These less pure alloys are harder to dent and scratch.

Platinum is an interesting but costly gold alternative that looks a lot like white gold. However, it’s harder than gold and there are a number of differences between the two.

Engagement Ring Design Your engagement ring design is a very personal choice. It doesn’t matter whether you pick an existing ring or have a custom piece created to your specifications. Semi-custom rings are also available – you pick the band size and stone, as well as other design elements, to create your perfect ring.

There are four basic elements to a great engagement ring design. These are practicality, comfort, strength, and looks. A good ring should be comfortable and practical for daily wear, keep all its stones and hold up, and look good in any situation.

Likewise, if you’re a mechanic, you’re going to be putting your engagement ring through more rough wear than if you’re an office assistant. Think hard about how and wear you’ll be wearing your ring when you choose its design.

That means that if you’re a mechanic, you’ll be putting your engagement ring through a lot more than you would if you worked in an office. Think about how and where your ring will be worn when you pick out the design. This is the reason that some people pick a less pure alloy when they decide on gold for their rings. This is a stronger material. Sturdier ring designs and the choice of platinum for the metal can also help.

There’s also a design factor – four prong settings are the least secure, six prong settings are stronger, and bezel settings are the strongest. Low, heavy settings take more abuse than high, light ones.

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Get Organized – How To Lose Weight Fast

by Belinda Gable

Have you ever noticed how those who are disorganized tend to spend most of their time rushing about? The sad thing is that because of their disorganized lifestyle, they also tend to rush their meals and of course, those who eat to fast tend to eat more than they need to which results in them becoming overweight.

Another tell tale sign of an unorganized life is untidiness or mess, both at the work place and at home. Here again, having a lot of mess laying about is bound to cause stress, and stress in turn often leads to overeating. As we can see, having a well organized lifestyle optimizes your chances for a happy and healthier life.

It’s an undeniable fact that stress is a common cause of weight problems as the vast majority of people tend to eat whenever they become stressed.

Being organized will also ensure that you have the right food in your house and you don’t have to resort to low quality foods that you keep as a backup for those times when you run out of the nutritious food that you should be eating.

Yet another advantage is that people who are well organized, also tend to eat regular meals at regular intervals. This is fundamental in keeping one’s blood sugar level in check as it’s a well known fact that eating irregularly, is a major cause of low blood sugar. A multitude of research has shown that when blood sugar levels drop below what they should be, overeating becomes the norm.

The last thing you need is to arrive at mealtime only to find you don’t have any healthy foods in store, thus causing you to slap something together which has very little, if any, nutrition so planning ahead is essential.

By being organized and having a shopping list where you have determined in advance the right foods for your diet you will be less likely to buy food that you shouldn’t be buying when you go to the supermarket.

For anyone on a weight loss program, being organized is of paramount importance. Not only will it help you maintain a healthy balanced diet, but it will also save you a considerable amount of time. Having planned your meals ahead means you won’t need to spend hours everyday worrying about what you’ll be having for your next meal and this on it’s own, can reduce stress even further.

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How Much do You Know About Rehearsal Dinner Etiquette?

by Doug Schlette

Weddings aren’t simple. There are rules and procedures at every turn. Families preparing for a wedding often receive a crash course in party planning and guest accommodations. Even rehearsal dinner etiquette can be rigorous. Understand the rules can make all the difference and lead to success and fun.

The groom’s parents get the task of running the rehearsal dinner. Leave the details to them. For couples who prefer to host the dinner themselves as a thanks to the families and wedding guests, make sure to explain the reasoning to the grooms parents so as not to insult them. If the groom’s parents insist, let them do it. Why not let people take on extra work when they insist?

The dinner should take place the day before the wedding, directly after the wedding rehearsal. This ensures that all the guests and family are in town, available to attend. It’s very bad form to hold the rehearsal dinner too far in advance of the wedding. It potentially excludes some people. Avoid hurting people’s feelings or making their attendance more difficult. Happy guests make for a better wedding.

Make sure to invite the immediate relatives on both sides of the wedding. The entire bridal party, each with a guest, should also be asked to attend along with any other friends and family the bride and groom would like to have at the dinner. The preacher or whoever officiates the wedding, offers the vows, should also be invited. Don’t be too hasty when it comes to planning the invites. Aunt Myrtle may be a little loud, but is a whole life of anger worth the snub?

Include a social time before the dinner so people can relax and talk. Be aware of the pressure people face at a wedding, so lighten the mood. Make sure the dinner isn’t out of whack with the cost of the remainder of the wedding. An extravagant wedding gets a extravagant rehearsal dinner. By the same token a budget wedding should have too fancy of a rehearsal dinnerA less expensive wedding warrants a less expensive rehearsal dinner. And don’t keep people out too late the night before the big day.

Toasts go to all the people helping with the wedding. Don’t forget both sets of parents. This toast takes place after the main meal, delivered by the couple to be. Other toasts, for example the best man’s toast, happen at the reception.

Don’t ruin a nice wedding by stepping on toes at the rehearsal dinner. Pay attention to rehearsal dinner etiquette.

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